Do past relationships set us up for a future fall?
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After you have been in relationships that have turned out less desirable for some reason or another, does that inturn mean we sabotage any future great relationships? Time and time again I talk with men and women who tell me they may have let the best “thing” (person) go. In the same regard, we at times feel no matter the greatness, eventually we will mess things up so, why wait till later why not deal with it now. Many of us have been there, the self sabotage is something we all deal with some more often than others. The relationship is so amazing why not spare each party of the hurt now instead of at a later date, just get it over with now. There are those that crave bad relationships, and then there are those that cause drama in a nothing but amazing relationship. What we need to remember is that, WE, write the pages to our own story. We determine the path we will take , the bad and the greatness. Focus on not sabotaging the light at the end of your story. Remember this is your choice. SO to the answer of the question-Do past relationships set us up for a future fall- well the answer is….. only if you let them. If you lay down with your past every night, get up and change your sheets.
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0 I love my boyfriend. but i always fight coz i am hurt as he had past sex lives.I never had one so all the ore upset.
can I get rid off it?
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0 0 Shruti think of it this way, yes he has had other relationship (sexual or not) but he is with you now and not them. Obviously you have something more to offer then the other women have had. That puts you way ahead of them even if they might have had sex.
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“If you lay down with your past every night, get up and change your sheets.”
Wow, that statement can apply to much more than relationships.
I think part of why some people self-sabotage their relationships is fear of success. They actually fear it will be successfull and they will take all the steps through engagement and marriage and kids. I think they fear they will not be happy with the success.
IMHO.